If ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you (Matthew 6:14).
Setting others free means setting yourself free, because resentment is really a form of attachment. It is a cosmic truth that it takes two to make a prisoner; a prisoner and a jailer. There is no such thing as being a prisoner on one’s own account. Moreover, the jailer is as much a prisoner as his charge. When you hold resentment against anyone, you are bound to that person by a mental chain. You are tied by a cosmic tie to the thing that you hate. The one person perhaps in the whole world whom you most dislike is the very one to whom you are attaching yourself by a hook that is stronger than steel. Is this what you wish? Is this the condition in which you desire to go on living? Remember, you belong to the thing with which you are linked in thought, and at some time or other, if that tie endures, the objects of your resentment will be drawn again into your life, perhaps to work further havoc. No one can afford such a thing; and so you must cut all such ties by a clear act of forgiveness. You must loose him and let him go. By forgiveness you set yourself free; you save your soul. And because the law of love works alike for one and all, you help to save his soul too.
We all carry the keys to the prisons of our resentment. Only we can put them in the locks and open the doors. No matter how justified our resentment, it still denies us our freedom. May we all swing open the doors of forgiveness today and ask God’s help to forgive all that have hurt us, and ask forgiveness from those we have hurt.
Then we can walk freely in the garden called beautiful that God created for us.
Come, sweet freedom,
Z gardener