It would probably be safe to say that more than half of the evil in the world is due to well-meaning busybodies who just cannot refrain from interfering. Needless to say, such people never have harmony or success in their own lives, for it is an invariable rule that he who minds his neighbor’s business, neglects his own.
To interfere mentally in any situation involves you in the consequences just as much as would a physical interference. Of course, where it is your duty to concern yourself in any matter, you must do so – constructively and spiritually – and then the consequences to you can only be good.
For every man shall bear his own burden (Galatians 6:5).
This does mean that we should neglect those around us who we can help. Interference is not help, it is injecting oneself into another’s affairs that are none of that person’s business. The obligation to help those around us, to counsel those who depend on us and to share our concerns with those we love always exist. But when we are not asked for help, or when we have no obligation to counsel, then the appropriate action is to be available, respond when asked and to direct love toward those about which we have concerns. When we inject ourselves into the affairs of those to which we have no duty or from which we have no invitation, then we have “gone from preaching to meddling”.
Bearing up,
Stan